| Relationship Status: It's Complicated Between God and Israel |
Devarim (Deuteronomy)4:5-8 See, I have imparted to you laws and rules, as the Lord my God has commanded me, for you to abide by in the land that you are about to enter and occupy. Observe them faithfully, for that will be proof of your wisdom and discernment to other peoples, who on hearing of all these laws will say, “Surely, that great nation is a wise and discerning people,” For what great nation is there that has a god so close at hand as is the Lord our God whenever we call upon Him? Or what great nation has laws and rules as perfect as all this Teaching that I set before you this day? Shir HaShirim (Song of Songs)3:1-2 Upon my couch at night, I sought the one I love—I sought, but I found him not. I must rise and roam the town, through the streets and through the squares; I must seek the one I love. I sought but I found him not. Isaiah50:1-2a Thus said the Lord: Where is the bill of divorce of your mother whom I dismissed? And which of my creditors was it to whom I sold you off? You were only sold off for your sins, and your mother dismissed for your crimes. Why, when I came, was there no one there? Why, when I called, would none respond? Is my arm, then, too short to rescue, have I not the power to save? Jeremiah3:6-9, 12b-13a The Lord said to me in the days of King Josiah: Have you seen what Rebel Israel did, going to every high mountain and under every leafy tree, and whoring there? I thought: After she has done all these things, she will come back to Me. But she did not come back; and her sister, Faithless Judah, saw it. I noted: Because Rebel Israel had committed adultery, I cast her off and handed her a bill of divorce; yet her sister, Faithless Judah, was not afraid—she too went and whored. Indeed, the land was defiled by her casual immorality, as she committed adultery with stone and with wood...I will not look on you in anger, for I am compassionate—declares the Lord; I do not bear a grudge for all time. Only recognize your sin... Talmud Bavli Shabbat 88aThey [Israel] stood under the mountain (Exodus 19:17b). R. Abdimi b. Hama b. Hasa said: This teaches that the Holy One, blessed be He, overturned the mountain upon them like an [inverted] cask, and said to them, “If you accept the Torah, it will be good; if not, this shall be your burial.” Shmot Rabbah 21:5 (Midrash on Exodus)Trans. from Rabbinic Fantasies: Imaginative Narratives from Classical Hebrew Literature, Eds. David Stern and Mark Jay Mirsky Rabbi Joshua ben Levi said, What is this like? It is like a king who was on a journey. A princess cried out to him, “Help! Save me from these bandits!” The king heard her and rescued her. Later, he wished to take the princess to be his wife, and he longed for her to speak to him, but she did not wish to. What did the king do? He set bandits against her—so that she would cry out to the king. He said to her, “For this I longed—to hear your voice.” Eicha Rabbah 3:211 (Midrash on Lamentations)Rabbi Abba bar Kahana said, It is like a king who took a certain woman to be his wife. He wrote her a very long marriage contract. “So many bridal chambers will I make for you,” he wrote her. “So many jewels will I bestow upon you, so much silver and gold will I give you.” The he left her for many years while he journeyed to a distant province. All this time her neighbours taunted her. “Has your husband not abandoned you?” they said. “Go! Take another man for yourself!” The woman wept and sighed, but then she would go inside her bridal chamber, read her marriage contract, and console herself. Many days and years later, the king returned. “You amaze me!” he said to her. “How have you been able to wait for me all these years?” She replied, “My lord, O king! If not for the generous marriage contract you wrote me, my neighbours would indeed have led me astray.” Compiled by Shira Wallach |




